SOME SUGGESTION ON MENTAL SUFFERING
Question asked : My date of birth is xxx . I am currently going through a lot of mental sufferings. What are some suggestions?
My View : Mental suffering is caused when one do not believe in the reality ( that is happening in life ).
The moment one accepts the reality the suffering is GONE.
Now one becomes a fighter, ready to search for the solution.
If there is no solution then become a silent observer like a spectator watching a football match. The game is in the hands of the players and YOU are just an observer given your time to observe.
I will give a live example of my own.
I was cheated and a fraud pulled out money from my account thru me ( I was being fooled, its my foolishness ). I was very honest and told that person that she do not need consultation but still she requested me and . . . . long story, cutting short. I was so much dejected that I could not take it that I was cheated.
It is because I was very very honest with the lady and she cheated me thru her boy friend assuming to be in army.
I was in deep pain and frustration as I could not believe that I could be cheated being honest, and for 2 days I was very upset and totally defocused.
Suddenly I shifted my focused and realized that my pain was the cause of my own disbelieving of the reality. I very soon realized it and then I went for solution.
I went to bank and lodged a complaint. Waited for many days as an OBSERVER and at the end nothing happened and I lost the amount permanently.
Now I there was no way that I could get back that money, so I started working more harder to it EARN BACK. In the process I worked so hard that I earned 4 times of the lost money and let myself forget about the lost one.
One more example
My father had a heart attack and was admitted in hospital. Cutting short the story. The doctors said that they can not do anything as he was aged and his body will not respond and as per medical practice one can not operate on such patient. The doctor told me 15 days time for my father.
My eyes were full of tears and I was crying like a child. In between my cry I realized that how much and till when I will cry as I have my responsibility to carry on with the situation.
I stopped crying and became an OBSERVER waiting to see my father passing away. Its so pathetic, I can’t explain nor express.
Now I got my eyes wet while writing this article. I am also human like you . . . so I understand you.
I did not cry at all for 16 day and on the 17th day he left this world and I got burst out crying. But still I could not cry much as I had responsibilities to do all the ritual works and other arrangements for funeral. I WENT FOR SOLUTION
There are many things in life which do not have instant solution thru astrology. I understand that our brain becomes blank and we are left out with nothing but for some quick miracles, and if it can be thru astrology.
JUST BELIEVE IN REALITY, that’s the mantra.
